A Person who Nurse a Grievance will Never find Happiness in Life
Sometime it is unfortunately in our life that the unpleasant things happen which can affect our feelings so we will be having a lot of grief.
This give such a great emotional impact in our life which is almost impossible to forget, but to constantly take it to anywhere is very frustrating.
If it’s continue stay in our thoughts, it will play an important role that may consistently give a profound pain to us, and every time this will be a painful feeling arises with a retributive response to the cause.
But this is unwise and it will only bring ourselves into trouble both mentally and contrary to our freedom limitations, because it has actually captured our feelings.
When we think of it will give us no chance to consider about other important things, it will also determine our state of mind and can turn us into a bad mood.
We are going to create hatred toward others but also to ourselves and that will just make our life to be more unbearable.
It is better to accept the knowledge which has been transferred to us and learn from it, and erase the designated person who gave us this bad feelings from our contact and friend list.
And then again move on with our life positively so it will no longer play as a major role in our mind anymore.
Give forgiveness to ourselves and forgive others for their actions, this is not because of we agree with it, but just to recover our inner peace.
Because nurse a grievance will never compensate the caused of grief for us, or to celebrate it as a victory.
It will not make us happier to make the same mistakes as the other person and return it back to them.
I wish you a healthy life. Kindly Regards, Author Jan Jansen