Happiness must be Controlled in Our Own Hands, Not by Others
Trust is good but control is better for the confirmation of security to have no doubts or suspicion.
Almost everything in our life is to have control over something, it starts with ourselves, but if there is no vision then we lose the sight of everything.
That will be the biggest problem in our life, we lose the control over ourselves, if that were to happen, it would be a nightmare for us.
We do not know what we do and anything can happen, we also know nothing more of it afterwards, in other words, our life will be running wild.
At that time, we will not be able to stand up for ourselves, or to take care of our own life, therefore we are being governed and influenced by others.
In fact, a conductor give us the instructions whether to play high or low , which can be good in an orchestra, but not in our daily private life.
As always we have to keep the boss by ourselves, when we or others are willing to make adjustments, then everyone can experience joy and pleasure in their best.
But the moment we may find that we lose control and give our heart and soul into the hands of another, then we are living under the shadow by others.
Jointly undertake things and working together to build a good relationship is very smart and wise with equal rights and values.
Until the time comes that there are injustices or behavioral changes embarking by others and we can lose our equal rights if we do not stand up directly to control it.
When time is there to take the opportunity by telling them the truth what we think, if not we should surrender control to another, but to tell what is in our heart, we must keep everything in check by our own hands.
I wish you a healthy life.
Author Jan Jansen