UA-33449711-5 Letting go Give us the Temporary Pain, but We might be Suffering a Long-term Distress if Holding on to Something which is Not Belong to Us - Jan Jansen

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Letting go Give us the Temporary Pain, but We might be Suffering a Long-term Distress if Holding on to Something which is Not Belong to Us

Letting go Give us the Temporary Pain, but We might be Suffering a Long-term Distress if Holding on to Something which is Not Belong to Us

 

When we do something on regularly basis or always be at somewhere with someone in the same place, we will be getting used to it quickly and consider it the most natural thing in the world, because those are the things which not changing.
Everything happened we doing it from our heart feeling, so we can feel at ease and comfortable, until something happened which did not give anybody an earlier signal.
We are attached to what we have now or in the place where we are now, but then when we getting upset, then we are forced to make a change.
We not always can get the right answer or huge possibility for choices, but when we’re stuck in the situation at the moment, it is necessary to force us and do it.
Distraught and full of nerves are all over in our thought, we keep thinking in our mind on what should we do for getting a more balanced and the best decision.
From our heart we want to see no change in the doings because we are satisfied with our way of life now and have fun.
The daily experiences with people around make us happy, so we think very positive mentally and want no changes from there.
But unfortunately we are not the only one there or even have no influence to decide about it, that only makes things to be more complicated and disappointing for us.
It all seemed to be so good and everyone seems to be happy and contented, we even can see the progression which resulting with the shared interests together.
But everything is now too late to even think about it, either we should made an immediate decision or wait for the response, but perhaps that is no longer possible.
A sensible response is very welcome in that moment, we must not given this directly from the heart but using our full intellect, which can cause a lot of emotional pain.
If we do not want to stick to a long-term pain, we need to let go of something which we have no control over it, and if we make a wise decision to stop, then we will need to ready ourselves to swallow with the temporary pain.

 

I wish you a healthy life.
Kindly Regards,
Author Jan Jansen

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Comments

  • Posted: December 18, 2014 18:26

    Dawn Lambros

    So true Jan! I think we all have a tendency to do this. But recognizing it is half the battle. Thanks for the message Great Oracle!
  • Posted: December 18, 2014 18:27

    Reza Choudhury

    One is so much enamoured and used to things as those give certain pleasure without even thinking that those things are not under the control of self. When things of pleasure are taken away an untold misery & pain befall to the one who is holding onto it for such a long time thinking as if those are always belonging to that person. But it is to be surmised that those things are given temporarily as life to all & taken away suddenly ...to make one shocked & caught unaware.The pain sometimes become very acute.It would be wise & advisable that everything whatsoever given to one to be accepted with the understanding that such things are given temporarily..may be taken away anytime. Such attitude can make one more mature to see life as its...short & temporary.
  • Posted: December 18, 2014 18:29

    Solitary Harvester

    My respect to the healthy thoughtful concept always & always you are so great my dear Jan Jansen. Yeah ; specially & separately we should to realize that, "The earth never belong to me but I belong to the earth always for a definite time and I have no idea about the time." Here mentioned that although separately we belong to the earth for a definite time but in spite of our too much desires everything of the earth is not belong to us separately & specially . And it is the law for us whic always derived by the almighty lord. By the by, we should never be depressed or upset for that because "Today which has for us separarely & specially or belongs to us separately & specially , another day that had another or belonged to another ; So , why are we crying ??? What had our separately & specially ?? & What had we lost ??? " We should realize that everything is ok for us separately & specially because of our true guidance the almighty lord & only he knows, what is the best for us separately & specially . So, we should never react or upset ; always we should proactive for those. Jan Jansen

 
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