Never Ask for Reaping Fruits If we do Not Plant any Seeds
Times have changed compared to the past, and everything now is more based on individual rather than collaborations between communal.
Most people only think of self-interest, and it is not easy to organize something together in groups to obtain equivalent profits for everybody.
Today, the majority of the population do nothing for free to help others and everybody are expecting for return, the more the merrier.
Everybody usually can reap on what they sows, except those who always daydreaming and just waiting for their free lunch without any effort.
Some may have an magnanimous desire for their own benefit and be greedy but they can still share from their heart.
Another is just seeking for benefits, no matter how it is, even though they have to penalize others with their excessive greed.
Those who only think of self-interest may gratify themselves by neglecting and using the interests of others, so they can take this as their own favoritism.
An opportunist is the one who is only driven by self-interest, they just want to take all advantages at the expense of others and to prepare for estimating on what they want to achieve without any regrets.
A social person is there to offer others a helping hand and build a friendly relationship with mutual respect .
To share the benefits together, first we must balance ourselves with our respective indicative tasks.
If there are possibilities for common interests, then we only can take the first step to do something or to discuss where everyone performs their particular task for mutual interest and brings the best benefits for both.
But if we do nothing for others, we should not expect any favors back, so we will have to perform in order to be reciprocal, balance ourselves first with our indicative tasks.
Communication is very important in such case where dissatisfaction is occurred, because understanding can not always be shown from a distance but can well be explained in a conversation or chat.
A conversation allowing appreciation and understanding of the situation with respectful words, this can help us to obtain the solution.
Misunderstanding can be overcome when another person manage to find the terms of “selfishness” in somebody, then through a communication we can resume united harmoniously and continue collaborate for allied interests.
Who do not sow also won’t reaped from the alliance with solidarity towards each other.
I wish you a healthy life.
Author Jan Jansen