Sometimes It is Better Losing in an Argument to Uphold a Golden Relationship
Everyone ever lose control of themselves, because we are not a programmed robot but human of flesh and blood with emotions and feelings.
Everybody have their better and worse days or “get out on the wrong side of the bed “
Anyone can run into a situation that everything comes at once and it all become a bit too much, so they are easily to get nervous and frustrated at that time.
At these times, it is very important not to lose control of ourselves and don’t try to go for a bad place to reduce the risk.
If we force ourselves entering into a discussion or problem on that time, it would give us a hand grenade that is going to be exploded in our own hands.
We should keep our manner in control during the argument with other, if not then the pin could be out from a hand grenade and the explosion would end our life in seconds.
That’s exactly what would happen if we terminate a good relationship during an argument in a discussion where we should normally laugh with a relaxed solution.
But because of our wrong attitudes and feelings we responded at that time, the hand grenade went bursted out of control and our relationship has been damaged.
So there isn’t any possibility to have a satisfied end for this argument and we will lose because of our indecent attitude for a relationship.
This will be the day when we know ourselves well and understand what the consequences might happened.
We have to go in a room where we are trapped with a time slot which opens a new door on the other day when we are cooling down.
So it is better to response soberly if we have an argument in order to uphold for our golden relationship.
It is not worth to be on the winning side of the argument but losing on a good relationship
Any argument can always finish with a golden handshake.
I wish you a healthy life.
Author Jan Jansen
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